It Happened

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  1. BonnieCat

    BonnieCat Crème de la Crème

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    Yesterday morning my beloved partner and soulmate passed away peacefully at home. It was expected but still, when it actually happens nothing prepares you for the actual event and aftermath. The grief and sorrow is very difficult to cope with right now

    BC
     
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  2. Eastbournemark

    Eastbournemark Proud Snowflake

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    My thoughts are with you BC. I missed meeting you for the first time at the Wales GMU but talking to others I know the affection they have for you and am sure you will get many messages of support at this horrible time. I hope you can get through the days and months to follow and you can remember your partner and the good times you have had together which will never leave you. Take care of yourself. Eastbourne Mark
     
  3. crispey

    crispey crispey creme de la creme

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    Nicki, I am so sorry to hear this, my love and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time
     
  4. Tiglet

    Tiglet Vintage Member

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    Nikki, it’s so sad to hear your news and nothing does prepare you for the final outcome.

    Thinking of you at this sad time and sending my love :heart:
     
  5. dilligaf

    dilligaf Guest

    Such sad news Nikki
    As you said not unexpected but it’s hard to prepare for these things
    You’re in my thoughts and prayers Nikki
    Stay strong pet and we’re all thinking of you
     
  6. Tucker 1963

    Tucker 1963 Elite Member

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    Nikki I know we have not met yet . But myself and my wife Lisa would just like to say how sorry we are to hear this bad news
    Stay strong and we are all thinking of you .
    Tucker and Lisa
     
  7. roadrider

    roadrider First Class Member

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    Our thoughts and prayers are with you Nikki.
    Such a sad time for you.Stay strong.
     
  8. Dougie D

    Dougie D Crème de la Crème

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    So sorry to hear this Nikki,my thoughts are with you
     
  9. Havit

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    Sorry to hear this Nikki. Im so sorry for your loss. You know we are all thinking of you at this terrible time.be strong . x
     
  10. Sprinter

    Sprinter Kinigit

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  11. steve lovatt

    steve lovatt Something else

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    So sorry to hear this Nikki.
    We are all thinking of you at this time. :heart:
     
  12. GaleForceEight

    GaleForceEight Noble Member

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    #10 GaleForceEight, Jul 29, 2018
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    Thoughts and prayers are with you, Nikki. Nothing anyone says will make much sense at the moment.

    When I lost a loved one the best advice given to me was "Yes - mourn the passing but don't forget to also celebrate the life! Fill the tears with the moments that made you both laugh, and brought you both joy. Fill them with those ridiculous, silly moments that had you both in stitches."
    Remember that they are still holding your hand to help you through - but no longer in pain or suffering.

    What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls a butterfly.

    David and Samantha.
     
  13. Oldyam

    Oldyam Grumpy Old Git

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    So very sorry to hear this Nikki,my thoughts are with you
     
  14. Wessa

    Wessa Cruising

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    So sad to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you :heart:
    Wessa
     
  15. TEZ 217

    TEZ 217 Crème de la Crème

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    Terrible news Nikki, As you say nothing is going to make you feel better at this time even though you knew this day was close,
    Staying strong is all you can do and use the memories you have of better times to lean upon when things is tough.
    My thoughts and all other members thoughts are with you always.
    God bless.
     
  16. thebiglad

    thebiglad Old fart, still riding !

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    Hi Nikki, I just read, with great sadness, about the passing of your partner.

    By the way you refer to them (as your soul-mate) you must have had lots of great times, so even though it brings pain to think about them, try to see the joy you both enjoyed.

    Wendy and I send you much love and support during this very difficult time, you are in our prayers.

    If there is anything we can do to help you, we are only a drive or ride away. Keep in touch via pm would you?

    Love and hugs,
    Dave and Wend.
     
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  17. andypandy

    andypandy Crème de la Crème

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    So sad to hear your news Nikki, I really feel for you. When a loved one has suffered for so long it's a tough road to tread. We all feel for you.:heart:
     
  18. Callumity

    Callumity Elite Member

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    Sincere condolences. Too many thoughts, too few adequate words.
     
  19. stollydriver

    stollydriver Elite Member

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    Sorry to hear of your loss - I echo everyone's thoughts - take care..
     
  20. BonnieCat

    BonnieCat Crème de la Crème

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    Guys I keep saying this but you are all awesome and lovely.

    :heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:
     
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  21. Angus

    Angus Noble Member

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    Nikki, my sincere condolences for your loss.
     
  22. MrOrange

    MrOrange Guest

    So sorry to hear this sad news. Our thoughts are with you.

    Ron
     
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